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Sex Isn't About Sex

Three meetings of an hour and a half each. The recordings stay with you for good.

This course is not about technique and not about the bedroom. It is about how your desire works, and why it is the thing that steers your choice of partners, your relationships and your money.

Why this matters to you

We rarely ask ourselves where what arouses us came from in the first place. Yet the script of desire forms long before your first relationships and then quietly decides whom you'll be drawn to, with whom there will be a “spark”, and with whom things will be calm and boring.

While this script is invisible, it runs you. Once it is visible, you can use it.

Program

Three meetings, each with a practice

  1. Meeting one: where desire comes from How your arousal script formed. Why you are drawn to the unavailable. Why closeness and passion so often live apart, and what that says about your history.
  2. Meeting two: how to use it We learn to read the script: what happens in bed says about you and your partner. What can be changed, and what it is wiser to learn to handle rather than fight.

What you will get

  • An understanding of your script of desire: where it comes from and how it works
  • A view of how it steers your choice of partners and your relationships
  • The link between desire and money: why it is one topic
  • Three practices: not conversations but work with yourself
  • The recordings of all three meetings stay with you for good
Who it's for

This course is for you if

You notice the same type of partner and the same ending

There is closeness but no passion. Or the reverse: passion but no closeness

You are drawn to people who are unavailable, and it no longer seems like chance

You're ready to look at yourself honestly, without shame and without self-digging

The mini-course “Sex Isn't About Sex”

Three meetings of 1.5 hours. The recordings stay with you

$99
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Access will arrive at the email you give at checkout.
This is a digital product, no refunds are offered.

In what format will I get the course?

These are recordings of three meetings of one and a half hours each. Access arrives by email right after payment, and you watch whenever suits you. The practices work in the recording too.

Is this about sex technique?

No. It is about the mechanics of desire: where it comes from, how to read it and how it is tied to your relationships and your money. There are no techniques in the course.

Will I feel awkward?

We work without shame and without peering into participants' private lives. You observe yourself and share only what you want to share.

How do I get access?

Right after payment you land on a page with the next steps, and an email with links to the meetings goes to the address you gave at checkout.

Can I get a refund?

No. This is a digital product with instant access, so all sales are final.

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